Marriages - Divorce or true love for ever and ever

About one out of three marriages ends in divorce. In America almost one in two. But why? People get married because they love each other. They want to be together for ever. At their Weddingday they are willing the have this special bound of love for ever and still so many people get divorced.

Shouldn´t it be scaring for people who want to get married? I think people shouldn´t!!! If they love each other and they want to show their partner that they love him or her, of course they can get married. Just because so many other marriages broke up it doesn´t mean that EVERY marriage will break up.

The main reaon why people get married is LOVE.

Either just to show everyone how much they love each othe or just to have this special feeling "We are married!"
But there are several other reasons: pregnancy by accident, taxes or money. In some other cultures marriages get arrangend, so the persons have to marrie without loving or even knowing eath other.

As already mention people aso get married because of money or taxes. Things go much easer when you are married.
But what when there are children? A pregnancy by accident: People get married because of the children, they want the best for them:
But also children suffer the most after a divorce. They get bribed by mum and dad with expensive presents or promises. But all they actually want is that their parents love each other. Sometimes the children get so much demaged after a divorce that they have to be treated with medication or psychaitric treatment.

Why do people get divorced??
Well, some can´t just live with one person for the rest of their life. They can´t deal with that feeling to be bounded forever. Other just do not love eacht other anymore or there was a occurence like getting betrayed.

So, we see that that marriages are something realy compicated, but on the other side so easy. It is the way to show true and never ending love. It is the bond between to people, it can be the start for rising a family.

That is a nother important point: After marriage mostly women give up their job to stay at home and rise the children.
That´s why some companies may say they rather want a man for the job than a women because the woman might get pregnant. These days also men can stay at home and look for the children while women work and bring home the money.

So, all in all and beside the fact that so many marriages break up, it is still a romantic and lovely way to show how much you love your partner and marriage can make your partnership stronger. It is a bound for ever and ever made out of love, trust, integrity and care and it is a perfect start for rising a lovely family:)